Will there ever be an ending to it

Seems like things are kinda getting out of hand and I couldn't find an expression for me to express.
I just want to stop assuming and just LOVE my dad the way it WAS, thats all..
but mum seems to be getting more depressed, all of this are driving me nuts.
What am I suppose to do?
Love to confront HER but I scare things will be more worse. I know mum is REALLY having a SHITTY CRAPPY DUMPPY feelings and thoughts going around her heart and minds but all I want is for her is keep calm, stop assuming stuffs and stop cursing..
One thing for sure I NEED is ALLAH guidance to save US, MY FAMILY...